Public Display’s of Affection
Here is one of those pieces of culture, which when contrasted between America and India, is the difference between night and day. On one end of the cultural spectrum you have India, where virtually any amount of publically displayed affection is deemed inappropriate, on the other end, America, where French kissing in the park is considered by many to be just another part of the culture. By the way…our picture to the left was taken in private, using a tripod 
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As an American, living in India, married to an Indian woman, surrounded by Indian people, and as a Christian, I have two priorities. One is to be Christ like, and nothing should ever usurp that focus in my life (that focus knows no cultural or geographical borders). Second is to be culturally acceptable in the place, and among the people, where I’ve been sent to serve.
So, when it comes to P.D.A.’s the solution is simple; don’t do the American thing! I must do first what Jesus would do, and second what an Indian would do, and striking a balance is a work of art.
This extreme in India is more than just a public matter; it can actually be traced back to what happens right at home. My wife, for example, shared with me that while she was growing up, she never once saw her parents hug or kiss, or show any affection for one another. Now that is extreme, but it is also very common. In India, to even say I love you is quite foreign, but it is also very Christian.
My conclusion: as a Christian in India; saying I love you – yes absolutely! Showing affection for my wife at home, in front of my children – yes again. Kissing and hugging my wife in public? No. I can probably get away with holding her hand, but that’s about as far as I should take it, and one would probably benefit from using this rule of thumb anywhere in the world.